Bazi Relationship - Mother and You

Do you know that you can tell the relationship between you and your mother in your bazi chart? Alternatively, can we tell if your mother meant well and takes good care of you?

Each of us is represented by an element – could be Metal, Water, Wood, Fire or Earth.
How about our Mother? It would naturally then be represented by the element that produces (the element that represent us) us in the five elements.
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In bazi terminology, we also call elements that represent Mother, the resource star.

Many different mothers - but in bazi, we use resource star to represent our natural mother

Elements representing mother and you
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Earth (Mother) --> Metal (You)
Metal (Mother) --> Water (You)
Water (Mother) --> Wood (You)
Wood (Mother) --> Fire (You)
Fire (Mother) --> Earth (You)

Generally, an easy way to gauge our relationship with our mother can be found below:

Scenario 1: Mother that is caring and with the right balance – just 1 or 2 resource star that is sitting near us.
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Scenario 2: Mother that is close to you but may overly nags/over indulge the children – 3 or more resource star in the chart

Scenario 3: Mother that has lesser affinity with children. Mother and child needs more effort in relationship – 0 resource star or just 1 that is ‘far’ away in bazi chart 

Scenario 2: Mother is strong in the chart. Well intended caring for but may spoil the person.

As you could see from above bazi chart, the person (represented by 乙 wood) 'receives' a lot of care from the water star (representing mother). Such individual can also be quite lucky and receive help from nobleman.

That said, bazi is a dynamic subject and there are certainly more ways to infer. Hence, above methods are just simple quick ways and not conclusive. There are other ways to read deeper in our relationship through bazi reading and other Chinese metaphysics personal luck reading systems.

All in all, should your mother’s element be favourable in your chart, your mother’s relationship and you should be good. You would also receive care from her.

Hope you enjoy this short article on mothers and you. Wishing all mothers a Happy Mother’s Day!