Can Bazi Predict Your Soulmate?

Most of us are curious about our love life.
“When will I meet the one?”
“Are we meant to be?”
“Why do I keep attracting the wrong people?”

If you’ve ever asked yourself these questions, Destiny reading holds your answers —specifically, through Bazi and Zi Wei Dou Shu.

So… can Destiny Reading predict your soulmate?
The short answer? Yes—but not in the way you think.
Let’s break it down.

Predicting your relationship partner through Bazi and Zi Wei Dou Shu

First, What Is Destiny Reading, BaZi and Zi Wei Dou Shu?

For a start, Destiny Reading is akin to modern day profiling (e.g. MBTI) but with even more features. Adding understanding to different aspects of your life and when does your luck goes up or down. This includes into different aspects of your life.

What supports this is the systems behind it.  

BaZi (八字) and Zi Wei Dou Shu are then two systems (Bazi being the more commonly used) which reads into your life blueprint based on your birth year, month, day, and hour. It reveals:

• Your personality and emotional patterns

• Type of partner you tend to be attracted to or have

• Your relationship strengths and weaknesses

• The timing of major events, like meeting a significant other

Think of it like your cosmic dating resume—except way more accurate than your horoscope app.

So, what can you also tell more on your relationship?

1.     Your Relationship Persona

Through your birth data, it will give a wide spectrum of insights. Does your relationship tend to be complex? Or you are destined for a blissful marriage?

Your stars in your relationship palace paints the type of luck, type of partner that tends to attract you and even if that your spouse can be helpful and bring you luck.

This is where it gets interesting where we can tell what type of individuals tend to turn your eyes and attract you.

2.     Peach Blossom Stars = Your Natural Attraction Power

These are the charm indicators in your chart—whether people are naturally drawn to you, and how you express attraction.

If you have the Peach Blossom Star (like Zi, Wu, Mao, or You), you probably never have to try hard to get attention. But beware, there is a double edge to Peach Blossom Stars. Depending on your peach blossom stars quality and quantity, things can vary quite a fair bit.

Another way to look at this star, is if you have the means to attract a potential someone. Through experience, this is not about looks. Have you notice someone attractively looking but somewhat lacking that X factor that make you like him/her? Or that someone who does not look appealing but has a natural attraction? This is the star that makes the difference.

3.     Relationship Spouse Element

Do you have affinity to be married? The spouse element in your bazi chart is one important component. This is a little similar to peach blossom star. How good your relationship luck is akin to having the right quality and quantity. It is not necessary the more the merrier.

Another perspective is that getting into relationship is just the initial bit of the puzzle. What does it spell for you in the long term after getting into a relationship too?

4.     Luck Pillars = Timing of Love

Ever wonder why some people fall in love effortlessly at 22 while others only meet “the one” at 35?

Your BaZi luck pillars can show when your love life is most active or favorable.

Real talk: Just because you haven’t met them yet doesn’t mean you won’t. You may simply not be in your “relationship window” yet where your special one has not appeared. He or she is just waiting for the right timing before appearing in your life. Destiny reading would provide insights on this.

So… Can It Predict Your Soulmate?

Yes, Destiny Reading (through Bazi and Zi Wei Dou Shu) can:

• Show your ideal match type

• Reveal when you’re most likely to meet them

• Highlight past relationship patterns

• Help you avoid toxic or misaligned connections by managing your relationship

Think of Destiny Reading as your GPS.
You still need to drive.

Final Thoughts

If love has felt confusing, frustrating, or just plain exhausting—your chart might hold the answers.

Want to find out when your love window opens or who’s truly right for you based on your Bazi?

DM me or book a Bazi love reading. Your soulmate story might already be written—you just haven’t read the chapter yet.

Relationship luck in Bazi in a minute

Wealth element is one that many may wish to have in their bazi chart. The more the merrier.

In the study of destiny ready in bazi of Zi Wei Dou Shu, when there is a imbalance, things tend to have a side effect. This is worsen when a bazi chart has many of 1 particular element causing a negative influence.

That spark a thought for me to share - what happens if there are aplenty type of stars (e.g. too many wealth, power or output stars) in your chart?

Today, let me share some typical scenarios we will see in our bazi.

What does your bazi chart says about your relationship luck?

Too many Wealth in a bazi chart (3 and above)

This has more impact for men in their relationship.

In relationship for men, wealth has the dual purpose to infer as relationship luck. There are several areas to analyze before we determine if relationship luck is auspicious. One of ways to gather is through the number of wealth elements. (Note: Relationship analysis is not linked to her wealth stars thus does not apply to woman.)

Men – May not want to get into relationship or wife likely to be of strong character and husband listens to wife

Women – Father have impactful effect (good or bad) on her

Too many Power star in a bazi chart (3 and above)

In relationship for women, this can be looked through the number of power stars. Similarly, with 3 or more power stars, there is high odds one would experience difficulties in getting a partner or headaches through relationship.

Women – No relationship or relationship headaches through multiple partners or suitors

Relationship stress for women can easily when there is too many Power or Output stars

Too many Output stars in a bazi chart (3 and above)

In relationship for women, Output stars aplenty usually may indicate the ladies to be at times more temperamental or opinionated. As such, such profile may easily cause friction and it is more challenging to maintain a harmonious relationship.

Women – Have to curb or manage your communications with your partner

Interesting? The above is just one simple way to have a finger tip glance. There are some scenarios where the above does not apply - in the scenario of special category bazi chart. Of course, there are other similar kind of chart such as those with too many resource stars or too many output stars.

Through our experiences in dealing with the bazi charts, these have been testified to be accurate. Importantly, through bazi reading for relationship, sometimes, we can find some insights of who or what can we do to improve to find a partner or better manage our relationship. That is why we do reading, isn’t it?

May you be blessed with good relationship luck!

Harmony and a bit of fun are essentials in a happy relationship

Move In Day To Do List

(This is a re-post from our old blog - dated 27-May-2017)

I have prepared a list of to do list and items for your move in day. This is since there are some confusion around this versus key collection day list of items (May refer to link here to find out on key collection article.)

Boiling water is one of required activity on move in day

What are the to do list then?

Here you go:

​Move House To Do List:

1.   Prepare new set of items such as cooking oil, container of rice and salt.

2.   During the entering of house, this should be led by the eldest within the family that is staying in the house (based on the time and date of move in provided).

3.   Switch on all lights/fans to ‘announce’ of your moving in and energize the place.

4.   Importantly, boil a kettle of water and cook rice. (Meal preparation is ok too but given the rush, most might be in favour of just cooking rice)

5.   Place bed per instructed during if you have been advised in the house audit.

Moving house to do list are simple with no ritual involved. Just move in on a auspicious date!

 
Note on Date of Move In
There are times where dates are calculated the DIY way based on the almanac. However, I notice there is a tendency to neglect taking into consideration clashes of their personal zodiac and other rules in date selection when calculating it personally. In the end, the date selected may not be the most ideal date or possess clashes. At times, even a deemed suitable day based on the almanac may not possess the best "qi" and energy.

Considering you would be staying in the house for years/long term comparing to cost of date selection is only minimal. With a selected date and time of move in, one will enjoy a smooth move in and happy stay in your new home. On some circumstances, one may also enjoy auspicious encounters/events after moving in. 

Hopefully you enjoyed the article.
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Key Collection Day

From the number of BTOs to condos being built these few years, you can imagine how many excited couples and families that will be collecting their keys to their new house.
 
There are various beliefs pertaining to this joyous occasion. But from some clients and friends I spoke with, there are also equal number of mix ideas and confusion to what is important.
 
As such, I have pen down the below to let readers to gain a better understanding of your big day.

Key collection to your home - What should you know?

Q1. I need to select good day for key collection!
This is understandable. After all, it is the first day you are ‘seeing’ your house thus the belief. But if you think about it, actually workers have been going in and out of your unit to touch up and repair any defects that there might be before your key collection. So if anything, the workers would have been to your house for the first time really.
 
If I were to give another light-hearted analogy, this is akin to you meeting your gf for the first date or the day you two got together. Imagine during the intense moment of your paktor-ing, you know that this is the moment to hold her hand as your gf awaits… And just as you were about to hold her hand…… you stopped. Thinking if this was a good day and time to start off on the relationship to ensure you two would be together happy ever after. If I don’t start off on a good day, would we still be together??...
 
By now you would have known, it was an attempt to explain why date selection is not needed for key collection day.
 
Date selection is only needed for two days – renovation and move in day. The former for a smooth renovation and avoiding hic-ups and issue caused during this period. The latter is to ensure after a smooth move in and good luck for occupants.
 

Q2. Okie, so the least I should still roll the pineapple, right?
Truth be told, the rolling of pineapple is more of a symbolic and custom.
 
If you think about classical Fengshui, the practice is based on energy/qi in the form of time and landform to put it simply. As such, rolling of the pineapple or preparing huat kway (彂糕) and fruits is actually a custom belief which cannot change the energy and luck in your house.
 

Q3. For a peace of mind - List of items you need
Nevertheless, I have listed down things you can prepare on the first visit to your new house. You may wish to follow the below:

1.   1 x Pineapple

2.   8 x apples

3.   8 x oranges

4.   1 bunch of bananas

5.   1 bunch of grapes

6.   2 x brown or orange “huat kway” (彂糕)

7.   8 x $1 coin in a red packet

8.   Sea salt

9.   Uncooked Rice

10.  Dried tea leaves

11.   Green beans

 
Q4. How to do it?

1.   Pineapple for roll in into your house by owner upon opening of main door.

2.   Placing of fruits platter (4x apples and oranges, 1 bunch of grapes and bananas, the pineapple, red packet of $8 coins, 1 huat kway) in the middle of living room.

3.   Placed the other fruits (4x apples, oranges and huat kway) at stove

4.   You can pre-prepare a mix of items 8, 9, 10 and 11 and use it to sprinkle each corners of your house.

5.   The fruit platter can be left over at the premises for the next 3 days before removing it.

 
Hopefully, the above guide will give you an idea what you just need for your first day of stepping in. Feel free to drop me a note if you have questions on your renovation or move in preparation.
 
Lastly to all new home owners, enjoy your new property! 

Zi Wei Dou Shu Year 2025 Forecast

Zi Wei Dou Shu, also known as the Purple Star Astrology, is one of the most powerful methods of Chinese metaphysics used to analyze a person’s fate, life path, and destiny.

From your date and time of birth, we study the positions of the stars in your chart which gives us a comprehensive picture of your strengths, challenges, and opportunities in various areas of life, such as career, relationships, wealth, and health.

In this article, we explore how the annual luck is read through transformation of stars in Zi Wei Dou Shu - which has heavy influence on our individual luck.

Understanding what happens when specific stars land in this important palace can provide valuable insight into your personal year forecast.

First off.. What is the Self Palace (命宫) in Zi Wei Dou Shu?

There are in fact, 12 different palaces which are:

1. Self/Life

2. Siblings

3. Spouse

4. Children

5. Wealth

6. Health

7. Travel

8. Friends

9. Career

10. Property

11. Happiness/Karma

12. Parents

In Zi Wei Dou Shu, Self Palace (命宫) is the most significant palace in your chart. It represents you, your core character, and the overall luck that influences your life direction.

Importantly, any turbulence in this palace would mean some issue causing unhappiness or problems. In fact, this will sit as your overall life’s luck.

The Self Palace also shows your inner characteristics, your natural traits, and how you interact with the world around you.

A Zi Wei Dou Shu Chart

How Do Stars Transform in Zi Wei Dou Shu Yearly Forecast?

Every year, the movement and transformation of Zi Wei Dou Shu stars create new dynamics in your chart. Four different types of transformation will take place – 禄，权，科，忌. At the same time, four different stars each year would undergo this transformation affecting your fortunes depending on which palace it lands on.

So in 2025, these are the transformations to these stars:

禄 – 天机 Tian Ji

权 – 天梁 Tian Liang

科 – 紫薇 Zi Wei

忌 – 太阴 Tai Yin

What are the impact in 2025 and if they land in your Self palace?

Depend on your chart, if any of the 4 stars land in the Self Palace, their impact can vary based on the specific conditions of your birth chart, but generally, these stars bring the following influences:

Stars in the Self Palace: What Do They Mean?

Here is a look at the Zi Wei Dou Shu stars and their meanings when they land in the Self Palace (命宫):

1. Tian Ji (天机) – The Strategist Star

Tian Ji represents wisdom, strategy, and adaptability. When this star lands in the Self Palace, you possess mental clarity, have problem-solving skill but may tend to over think. You may find yourself better equipped to handle life’s challenges with calculated and thoughtful decisions. Tian Ji brings insight into your future plans and offers the ability to adapt to changing circumstances effectively by being adaptable.

• Positive Influence: Enjoys planning, intellectual clarity, adaptability.

• 2025 Influence to Self: Good year to consider changes or learn a new skill. Lucky year to embark on new initiatives.

2. Tian Liang (天梁) – The Virtuous Star

When Tian Liang is in the Self Palace, it highlights your inner virtues, moral compass, and sense of justice. People with this star in their Self Palace are typically seen as individuals who value honor, kindness, and with a streak of stubbornness. This placement may indicate that you are someone who leads with a strong sense of integrity, and you may naturally find yourself being looked to for guidance and support from others.

• Positive Influence: Willing to help, mature and stable personality.

• 2025 Influence to Self: Ego conflicts, potential to take on more responsibilities, need to be tactful.

The Emperor - 紫微

3. Zi Wei (紫微) – The Emperor Star

Zi Wei is considered the most powerful star in Zi Wei Dou Shu and is often referred to as the "Emperor Star." The presence of Zi Wei can bring opportunities for personal growth, success, and a sense of control over your destiny. But this depends largely, if any assistant stars is accompanied. You are prideful and tend to have a natural leadership in your character.

• Positive Influence: Authority, career advancement, recognition, empowerment.

• 2025 Influence to Self: Lucky and able to meet helpful and influential person and may gain reputation.

The Moon Star - 太阴

4. Tai Yin (太阴) – The Moon Star

Tai Yin, or the Moon Star, represents emotional depth, intuition, and relationships. When Tai Yin enters your Self Palace, it brings focus to your emotional well-being, inner peace, and relationships with others. This star is associated with nurturing, feminine energy, and creativity character. In fact, a guy that has this star in their life palace, they tend to be more gentle or less macho. You may find yourself more introspective, conservative and at times, gullible.

• Positive Influence: Brings a gentle influence to character, peaceful, creativity.

• 2025 Influence to Self: A good year to lay low especially related to wealth matters. Take care of inter-personal relationship as you are prone to conflicts.

Conclusion: How to Make the Most of Stars in Your Self Palace

Depending on your chart, the 4 stars may fall into our Life Palace or any of other palaces such as Wealth, Career or Travel. In the event of such, then this would represent different meanings and interpretation for individuals.

If you’re curious about your own Zi Wei Dou Shu chart and how the stars will impact you, consider consulting with a professional Zi Wei Dou Shu practitioner to get a personalized forecast.