During 1 of my recent bazi reading, this lady’s chart was presented to me. Born in the Sep 1989 (year of snake autumn), her main concern was in relationship luck. Through our conversation, I came to know her wish to get settle down.
A quick look and we see that this lady has the 辛 （xin, H8）in blue circled as her day master which represent her. In bazi, this day master would represent you be it male or female. Ladies born with this day master would have their spouse represented by fire element. For a start, this means that any fire element in your chart as for a xin day master represents the spouse or relationship element. You would notice 3 fire elements (in red box) in this chart. It looks deceivingly promising but a closer look would tell u otherwise.
First, despite the day master 辛 H8 being born in season, there are too many fire in the chart. The day master is weak and would not like to see too many elements that weaken it – fire. (Fire attacks metal).
In short, fire has become her unfavourable element in this chart. Moreover, even if she is married now, the many fire elements spell possible abusive relationship with husband with herself at the receiving end of abuse.
Not surprisingly, this lady has shared she has been single all these while for years.
Having said that, not all is lost. She may find better chance in the age pillar of 36 when 丁丑 pillar appears. The 丑 earth would likely improve her odds when a combination of 巳酉丑 appears. This signify a possible blossoming of relationship taking place.
Nonetheless, I shared with her that patience is virtue. Looking on the bright side, there is light at end of tunnel and this drought would not continue forever.
Here’s hoping one day that cupid would struck soon. After all, in bazi studies, it is all about timing.
Founded Feng Shui Discovery Consulting in Singapore, Gibson has keen interest and carries out various research in the subject.