Being single is frustrating for those looking for their other half. The wait seems forever and you wonder when would time bestow some fortune for the someone to appear.
How do we know?
It lies in our bazi chart showing the spouse luck each of us are bestow with. (On a side note, this is not to be confused with whom some believes of the zodiac of e.g. person born in year of monkey which cannot be with a person clash with year of tiger due to clash.)
What can we see? Should there be a prosperous spouse luck which enhance the chart, the person likely should enjoy a great relationship with the love ones. Happy times and where one enjoys a fulfilled love life.
On the flip side, what happens if the person encounters a less than desirable spouse luck? A few likely scenarios; anything ranging from absence or distant of spouse, poorer eligibility of spouse to unsuccessful relationships. Other include cases where of course, sadly, the person may wait in vain and not find his/her other half.
What about one’s timing you say? Quote an example of someone who never seem to find someone and pop! I finally found someone! These would be cases of spouse luck improvement when your luck pillar turn for the better or cases of combination takes place to allow better spouse luck.
Here is a chart of poor spouse luck where the lady has consulted on spouse matter. Even though there was an appearance of Jia wood (甲) which represents her spouse, she would find it extremely hard to find one due to her chart dynamics. Further confirmation with her confirmed that she had 2 brief relationships though which ended quickly. There was a lack of peach blossom luck in her chart too to enhance her attractiveness.
With this example, it also goes to explain that in bazi, the presence of the representing element does not signify simply the fortune of spouse luck. The same goes to explain wealth and other matters in life.
Now, what do we do if we were to face with such fate? Do we just throw in the towel? Much as it is, in my humble opinion, I always believe things are still in our hands other than simply accepting fate. We can explore and introduce feng shui cures or other life solutions to try to improve.
There is a difference in simply accepting or at least, you put on a good fight to try to change things for better. Singlish style - “No try, no gain”. In the study of bazi, we believe that man holds a third of ability to change the course which means our fate still lies in our own hands.
As such, I hope and wish each of us would still strive to achieve what we wish for. Bazi is after all about knowing our odds so that we can strive to improve odds of our success by choosing the best way. This applies to all matters in life.
Founded Feng Shui Discovery Consulting in Singapore, Gibson has keen interest and carries out various research in the subject.