Spouse Palace and you

​Recently, while watching a local documentary which talks about finding love through modern technology (using apps), it sparked me to share this write up. Actually, each of our potential to find someone can be seen in our bazi DNA.

Where can we see this?
How can this help you if you are looking for love or even if you are in a relationship?

In our bazi, there is this “palace” called a spouse palace. As its name suggest, it tells us insights of our love life affairs. Today, I would like to share areas in bazi that touch on this palace.

Depending on each chart, some simple info we can tell:

• If spouse is supportive/helpful and good relationship with you
• If spouse is rich
• If spouse is of negative influence
• If you may be prone to desire being single or have friction easily when in relationship

 
Alternatively, we can even tell:

• If you may be more ‘vocal’ with your spouse
• If your mother interferes with the relationship
• If you are maybe always troubled by love matters (and may thus be better not getting married)
• If your spouse or you would be the leader in the relationship

 
Where do we read from our bazi chart?
In my example stated below, circled in blue represents yourself as the “day master”. Circled in red is your spouse palace.

Lady A's bazi chart with the spouse element (water) in the spouse palace - sweet spot to be in

​​This example is a good example of a bazi chart where the lady here has a supportive husband. As such, their relationship would be great. (For a lady with day master of fire, your spouse is represented by water.) How do we see this?

Because, not only does water benefit this chart, it also resides in the spouse palace, the best place to be in. Of course, there are other various factors, but to not make this article complex, I would not go in too in-depth. It is therefore clear to see this lady’s relationship would be good without too much turbulence.
 

Another chart per below which shows a wood female day master. You can see there is an abundance of water in the chart which it is also in the spouse palace. This chart on the flip side would likely not have much relationship luck. This is due to no presence of any spouse element, metal (Wood daymaster’s spouse element is represented by metal). The element, water, in the spouse palace is also not good. 

Lady B's bazi chart with too much water (mother) element even in the spouse palace

​The problem - too much water (the other)
In fact, there is an abundance of water which would weaken metal (the spouse element). Water which gives birth to wood, is also this day master’s mother. The abundance of water also caused this wood (the daymaster) to ‘rot’. You can thus see from the chart that the mother has too much say in her life with negative influence. Any potential suitors if any to begin with would find it hard to come into her life.

Solution for her? The lady has to manage her mother and her influence for any chance to have a shot at a relationship!

In summary, know your problem and change for the better!
There are many ways to read into a relationship in a bazi. The above are just two of the ways or interaction within a bazi as an example to tell one’s relationship luck. Importantly, your bazi reveals not only if you have the luck but what are the influence around you that may have deter you (from a relationship). In my opinion, knowing the negative influence is where one then can take action to change your course through your action. This is how bazi can be useful and allow one to try take initiative to change for the better.
 
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